Author: Lindsay Racen

Missouri

First Father’s Day – Lake of the Ozarks

Wow! After all we’ve been through I’m so happy to celebrate my husband today for his very first father’s day!

Originally I had this day all planned out at home before I realized we would be here for Robert and Bobbi’s first big daddy’s day. I was going to make him eggs Benedict, take him for a pedicure (yes he’s cool like that), go out for Korean BBQ then simply see what happens. But plan B it is!

I did try to make it as special as I could on the road. I dressed Bobbi up in blue nautical overalls with pink text that said “Always Daddy’s Girl,” and put on her “First Father’s Day” bib to surprise him in the morning. I loved waking up to the sound of his cousin’s daughter’s feet padding on their hardwoods. I also got him a tank top that said “I’m a Sailing Dad. It’s Kind of Like a Normal Dad but COOLER.” I felt like if he was going to wear a cheesy dad shirt, which is a must on your first celebration, then that had to be the one. The problem was that even though I sent it to his cousin’s house who we were staying with, it still didn’t arrive on time. In fact, it didn’t arrive until weeks after we left with all the “supply chain issues.” Bummer, I know.

It’s all good though. We had a wonderful time with his family, and it was special that he got to spend it with his father too. We hung out on the dock, swam in the cove and grandma grilled hot dogs. It really was a good old fashioned American lake day. I loved every minute.

Later on, we decided to take the brush hog out for a spin. It’s like a rugged, beefy, off-roading golf cart. We love exploring the land since the family property is about 120 acres. Bobbi seemed to enjoy it. She was strapped to Robert’s chest in the ergo – safe and sound. It was really fun to explore together and we even spotted a few deer that commonly live around the area. We loved that she got to experience the wildlife and that this place will be here for her throughout her life. It warms my heart.

Missouri

Baby’s First Flight (SNA to STL)

How old was your kid when they took their first flight? Bobbi was seven months, from Orange County (SNA) to Saint Louis (SNL) on Southwest.

Robert and I were so nervous for a few days, but of course our sweet girl did amazing! She’s already true traveler at heart!

We brought her ear protection, (which we got for another purpose but heard they are great for flights) -Bobbi tested, Bobbi approved- and gave her a bottle as we took off as the plane took off, just as the Dr. recommended. It worked like a charm! After that she pretty much just slept on Robert in the ergo until we started our decent into Saint Louis. When she woke up she didn’t make a sound. So although her first flight could have gone many different ways, but even with masks it was as smooth as we could ask for.

We’re super excited about the trip! Even if it’s a humble purpose to see Robert’s family, we couldn’t be happier. We haven’t been on vacation in over two years, as many others thanks to Covid, and it’s our first big trip with Bobbi.

Our hosts for the night were grandma and grandpa, who live in a lovely wooded area outside of the city. I always love the drive to their place, passing wide plains with houses with grand yards. As I dream of a yard that big coming from Southern California, I can hear my husband’s thoughts of horror how much mowing that would be, on the flip side how rad his riding mower would be if he lived out here.

When we got to grandpa’s and grandma’s house we enjoyed what every family does – dinner, drinks and pictures with the baby! It was the first time uncle Brian met Bobbi too. She naturally already loves him!

We slept in the basement. Have I mentioned I LOVE all basements? They are legitimately the coolest things for cali kids. My mind wanders as the possibility for the space – a Steelers Lady Den? Library? Art/Scrapbook Studio, a Wine Cellar? SO many options! Anyways Bobbi started out in the pack and play after falling asleep while the boys caught up and we watched Sweet Tooth on Netflix (5 Stars BTW), but ended up waking up multiple times so we transferred her to our bed. Day One Down! It’s just the beginning!

California

Best Work/Life Balance Cities in America

Location. Location. Location. House hunting requires a significant amount of business sense and self-reflection since our places of residence often help shape our professional and personal life experiences. We consider everything: our career opportunities, costs of living, expenses and cultural support for making a home in an area where we can also live out our personal interests. Some places in America are actually better than others in finding a balance between career, social and familial commitments. Check out some of our top picks for best work life balance cities.

goldengate-bridge-smSan Francisco, California

Northern California has been iconic for its picturesque coastline and big city landmarks like the Golden Gate Bridge. The two juxtaposed embody the spirit of work life balance, with natural parks and plenty of nightlife built into a bustling city bursting with job opportunities. Sunset magazine rated the city in the top spot for Best Place to Launch a Career with the tech industry shifting its way. Giants such as Salesforce, Twitter, Pinterest, Zynga, Dropbox and Yelp have all established headquarters in the city, with Google and Facebook expanding it branch offices nearby. Many of these companies also land in Glassdoor’s Best Places to Work list for 2014 which implies that employees are generally happier where they work and live.

San Francisco is also ranked among the top 5 vacation spots in America according to U.S. News & World Report so its recreational department must be doing something right. Its charm as the bohemian capital gives it an identity unmatched by almost any city. Of course as with any big city the argument of high costs of living is there but there are also ways to battle that. Easy public transportation allows residents and visitors alike to cut down on gas expenses and apply it to resources for family, friends or other recreational activities. With many free public areas to play residents can enjoy natural attractions on a budget. Its neighboring communities of San Jose, Palo Alto and Berkeley also rank consistently among the best places to live in the country.

denver-colorado-city-smDenver, Colorado

Within the last five years there has been a lot of talk about California residents heading out to Colorado to start new lives because of the high costs of living. It’s almost obvious why the city is on our list of work life balance cities when you see skylines of Denver against snowcapped mountains. With more people moving to the Rocky Mountain region, local companies are able to expand and prosper and new cultural dynamics are influencing them. Employees are demanding a balance, companies are encouraging it and the economy is supporting it.

Ground Floor Media, a Denver-based PR agency is a perfect example of this movement in action. They use the term “work-life blend” and embrace the sometimes controversial flextime policies. Momentum is also in Denver’s favor with the forecast for 2014 showing continued economic expansion in Metro Denver. Best of all, the cost of living is incredibly reasonable compared to other cities and providing recreational activities is the state’s specialty. With traditional seasons and natural wonders all around there are plenty play-time opportunities nearby, plus some iconic sports teams boot.

new-england-ma-smSharon, Massachusetts

Shifting to the East Coast, TIME recently honored this New England town as the best place to live in America in its Money section. It is perfectly situated on the map, surrounded by a wealth of good jobs in nearby Boston, Providence and Route 128 tech corridor. In fact, Boston is only a half hour away by train and is home to the best place to work in the country according to Glassdoor – Bain & Company. Sharon’s local is often credited for insulating residents from the worst recession and ignited quick recovery. That says a lot considering many cities are still struggling to get back near they were prior to the economic downturn.

In addition to job security the town’s schools attract families from all around which creates a healthy level of diversity. Sharon used to be considered a summertime resort and its history has been preserved well considering modern city sprawls. Nearly 40 percent of the area remains open space and nearby Lake Massapoag offers residents a local area to enjoy time with family and community members.

Durham, North Carolina

Livability released its official rankings of the best places to live for 2014 and transporter-bridge-smDurham made it into the top five. The criteria of their study focused on small to mid-sized cities rather than the larger more recognized skylines and included consideration for where residents are able to take full advantage of a wide variety of amenities – from social wellness outlets such as parks and museums to different commuting options and health care.

According to its mayor, William Bell, the city has embraced its past and has remade itself as a research and technology hub in the last half century with more than 1 million square feet of adaptive reuse space.

The town has taken its old tobacco mills and transformed them into residential loft and office space – the American Tobacco Historic District – to maintain the character of the 19th- and 20th-century downtown while moving into a 21st-century economy.

 

Billed as “the medical city,” Durham lives up to the reputation, scoring highly for health care based on its low spending and high number of hospitals. Not surprisingly, it also scores well in education, but it’s not all serious in Durham. The town also gets high marks for its amenities like the Museum of Life and Science. Residents take advantage of the town’s attractions, such as the Durham Performing Arts Center, one of the most-attended theaters in the United States.

Finding Your Balance

According to the experts these places are prime role models of the top work life balance cities, but we know there are many others out there that provide just as much for their residents. If it is difficult for you to find your city anywhere on the top lists, you may want to be the force that creates the equilibrium. Take control and crack the myths of work life balance: curb your long hours at work, find ways to incorporate fitness into your daily routine, and actively practice stress management tactics. Whatever works for you, make sure you commit to it and you’ll be happier in your career and personal life in the long run.

Netherlands

Wild Amsterdam Parks and the Artis Zoo

Wild Amsterdam at the Artis Zoo

Travel Tip >> Take time to reflect and capture the memories you’re making along your journey and appreciate those you’re sharing the experience with.

After our long day of traveling, we took some extra time to sleep in to rest off the jet lag which was wonderful and worked like a charm. We got up feeling refreshed late in the morning, picked up our transit cards and headed out the door. Our apartment was on the main street of Overtoom where a trolley stop easily brought us down through the city to Amsterdam Central. From there we set off to get lost in the canals which were just as beautiful in person as they are in all the pictures. We found the Anne Frank Huis which offers a wonderful learning opportunity for the kids but boasts lines longer than we’ve seen in Disneyland.

The weather was surprisingly pleasant, if not just a few degrees too hot for as much walking as we had done, so we stopped at a local café for a break. By that time we found our way to Artis Zoo, which came recommended by our substitute Air BnB host for being somewhat historic to the city but recently modernized and upgraded. It had been so long since either of us had been to a Zoo, even living so close to LA and San Diego, that it sounded like a really fun activity for the day and it was. The grounds were beautiful with tulip gardens and finely kept pathways and of course an array of exotic animals including

  • Giraffes
  • Reindeer
  • Exotic birds
  • Reptiles
  • Big Cats
  • Sea Life
  • Monkeys

Your family will have a wonderful time wandering around the wild animal park. We even welcomed a new member to our travel family. Keep an eye out for Rooney our new traveling gnome who was born at the Artis zoo and will adventure all over the world wish us!

Some Favorite Family Green Spaces

Travel Tip >> Take in the artistic culture of the city and enjoy live musicians and performers or just basque in the sun in Rembrandt Square. 

We recommend enjoying the live music and eateries around Rembrandt Square which offers a relaxing and enjoyable break from the hustle and bustle. You’ll enjoy street performers as the kids dance to the music and take in the local culture as families lounge with friends and family on a beautiful Amsterdam day. We sat at a cafe called Escape which offers some great appetizers and some nice spirits for mom and dad looking for a little refreshment.

Travel Tip >> Take some time to enjoy Voldenpark which has some of the less busy iAmsterdam signs where you and your family can snap some photos without fighting the crowds.

Voldenpark allows pets and most people take time to just lay on the beautiful grounds and enjoy the scenery. It’s a perfect place for the runner in your life to let off some steam while the family enjoys some hang out time or picnic. There are beautiful features in the park like the Voldenpark Gazebo which is a great spot for your next family photo. You’ll often see people biking, playing Frisbee or simply laying about and we encourage you to take part in this fabulous recreational green space.

Travel Tip >> “Sh-ee-ple” – A crowd of people being herded around a popular attraction. Sometimes you just have to learn to embrace being part of the sheeple or you’ll let others bring down your fun.

The Rijksmuseum also offers a beautiful open green space that families can enjoy as they venture into one of the most impressive museums in the world. We walked through Voldenpark to get there and once inside keep a close eye on the kids because it truly can get extremely busy as defined by the sheeple effect. Here you will gawk at classic Rembrandts, Van Gogh’s “Self Portrait” and some interesting art pieces from the rotating exhibits. Keep in mind sometimes there can be interpretive yet liberating pieces that may not be family friendly so be sure to review the exhibit areas prior to bringing the kiddos to a few.

 

Netherlands

The Hague: Foodie Finds and Family Friendly Scheveningen Beach

Our time in Den Haag was entirely devoted to what we love most – family time and some much needed R&R. The Hague is the capital city of the South Holland province, less than an hour train ride from Amsterdam. The city is home to the Dutch government and over 150 international organizations and the International Criminal Court. As we set off toward the Hague, we peered into the countryside through the window of our train to find fields of tulip beds and the iconic windmills that you find on nearly every postcard of the the Netherlands. We were lucky enough to visit this destination with family who actually lived

Foodie Finds

Travel Tip >> Try the raw herring. If you down this delicious fish in three whole bites you can basically consider yourself a local! 

Best Pizza in the Natherlands

If you don’t remember anything from this post remember this: GO TO PASTANINI. It is by far the best pizza we’ve had, and even rivals its native homeland of Italy. Just think of pasta and panini and combine to help you remember. It’s on “The Fred,” or Frederik Hendriklaan street, like almost all establishments in this part of the Hague are. Although the menu isn’t featured online, our favorite pizza is was made of a spicy meat that was utterly to die for. Mom here rarely eats the crust, like the kiddos, and that was even good enough to devour at this restaurant. We aren’t naturally food critics so it’s difficult to find the words to describe how amazing this pizza was, but believe us, its pretty mind blowing!

If your family loves dim sum like ours check out Chinees Indisch Restaurant Walong. It came on a recommendation from our talented sister-in-law who is a talented nutritionist and chef. Her insight certainly did not disappoint so we pass the recommendation right back your way. It was definitely worth the trip.

 

Raw Herring

The final full day of our trip we decided to venture out to Scheveningen Beach on the North Sea, which is where we were introduced to the local favorite: Raw Herring. Often served straight with onions, or sometimes sandwiched between a simple piece of bread, its told that to be a true Dutch citizen you can eat the entire thing in less than three bites. We came pretty close and our niece showed us up by enjoying every last bite. Taste-wise it was good. Very fishy of course and overall quite buttery. Mom loves exotic foods though and adding it to her weird foods list right below alpaca and guinea pig! When in The Hague right? Life goal: eat with Andrew Zimmerman.

Scheveningen Beach

Travel Tip >> Rent a bike but don’t be timid. Unlike America two wheelers, trikes and bikes with side wagons often have the right of way in this town. A family of four can easily get around without a taxi or trolley ride. 

Scheveningen Beach
Scheveningen Beach

It is Holland’s most famous seaside resort towns and is the go-to weekend escape for many citizens in and out of the country. The icon for luxury travelers is the Kurhaus hotel which looks like a huge royal palace just sitting on the beach like a giant sand castle. There are also options for family hotels with magnificent views. It was off-season while we were there so the vast shore was surprisingly empty and seemed to stretch for miles. During peak travel months there are huge pavilions that are set up along the boardwalk where people can eat, drink, watch the ocean and simply make the most of their vacation.

We set up shop at one of them where we enjoyed a tea made of two ingredients – hot water and a full bushel of mint. It was just so refreshing and pure it was absolutely perfect. One of our favorite things about the region is that they are extremely family-friendly. We loved that you could sit and enjoy some quality adult-time while easily watching your children hang out on nearby beach playgrounds within eye and ear shot. The city makes it so easy to enjoy quality time with those who are most important in our lives.

Copenhagen Buildings Denmark

Copenhagen: Langelinie Park and Christiania

“Copenhagen is the coolest kid on the Nordic block. Edgier than Stockholm and worldlier than Oslo, the Danish capital gives Scandinavia the X factor,” the lonely planet claims and after experiencing it firsthand we have to agree. After a full day at sea on our cruise through the Baltic Sea, København, Denmark was our first port of call and we were for a family friendly adventure. We had two days in this modern yet classic capital finding excitement, beauty, and a touch of hippy love as we walked through the streets from the canals to Christianshavn.

We love how accessible cities in Europe are by foot. Each day we averaged 8-10 miles of just walking around and exploring the different cities and Copenhagen gained a gold star for pedestrian travel in our book, but you may want to pick and choose your key spots depending on how long the kiddos’ energy will last. Walking along the canals we fell in love with the vibrant colors on the buildings even for a cloudy day they seemed to brighten up the sky. Although there are far less of them than in Amsterdam, they surpassed my expectations and some even beat out its neighboring port.

“Tails” from Langelinie Park

Travel Tip >> If you’re on a cruise and didn’t pick up a Copenhagen travel map, simply follow the crowd and you’ll find your way to the first main attraction to kick off your explorations. Be one with the “sheeple” 

Little Mermaid Statue Copenhagen
The Real Little Mermaid

It’s the basic principle of accepting being a sheeple, once you find your way to the first main stop there will be some resource or tour guide company begging for your business. In this case the first main stop was the iconic Little Mermaid statue, perched by on a smooth rock by the sea with the old shipping island of Refshaleøen behind her. If you’re coming from city center, it’s a bit far, but walking is never a true chore in cities like Copenhagen, especially when you’re too distracted by its colorful culture and architecture to worry about your feet. For as much hype as the statue has in tour books, it’s smaller than you might imagine once you reach her domain.

Hans Christian Anderson, a children’s storybook legend wrote the classic story of The Little Mermaid and lived many days of his life in Copenhagen. We always appreciated his talents in the classical nostalgic sense, but we recently found a new appreciation after discovering he wrote series of travelogues back in the mid 1800’s, including a visit to my beloved Spain in 1866. It’s incredible to think how many lives his works touched and to see one of his most famed fairy tales memorialized with such permanence was pretty special.

As we trekked on we walked through Langelinie Park where there were towering sculptures sprinkled throughout the grounds, a playground, and a pier. Many of the artistic creations had angels atop, including a tall pillar with one waving gloriously toward the bay that stood as a proud tribute to sailors coming in and out of the channel. Another triangular sculpture with a winged goddess perched memorialized local workers and their life’s labor that they dedicated to the local economy, their families, and beyond.

Langelinie Park Statues
Langelinie Park

Down the park path we found a beautiful statue of Princess Marie of Orleans (1865 -1909) that stands tall with a mother and baby sitting at her feet. She was a French princess by birth and a Danish princess by marriage to her husband Prince Valdemar. Briefly learning about her legacy she seemed like a pretty amazing woman and although she never did learn the Danish language, she broke the mold of traditional women in court life by actively participating in political movements and is described as “impulsive, witty, and energetic” introducing a more relaxed style to the stiff royal lifestyle. Even in stone there is something regal about her presence and as a mother and child sit at the foot of her sculpture. Although We are indeed proud Americans and believe in the foundations and purposes of democracy, moments like these remind you why little girls dreamed of being princesses one day and why monarchies tend to be almost romantic in our minds.

Is Christiania Family-Friendly?

Travel Tip >> You’ll have to decide whether this hippy town fits into your family philosophy or not. It’s “Green Light District” may fire up your teens’ imaginations of hemp products but there are a few gems to experience in this interesting little community. 

Christiania Copenhagen Graffiti
Christiania Graffiti Art

From white table cloths to picnic benches and homemade houses, it is amazing that just 10 minutes walking distance you can find yourself in Christiania, often referred to as the “city within a city.” It is a place where artists, musicians, students, hippies and yes – families – all co-exist in community. We’ve traveled to a wide range of different countries including many third world destinations and we always like to remind people that although a place may not have the best curb appeal – families do still call it their home. It may be a simple lesson in keeping an open mind to diversity, but you’ll have to decide what’s right for your brood.

When the community was established in the early 1970’s locals basically took over former military barracks so the buildings aren’t much to look at. In fact at first glance it looks like a run-down town under a bridge, decorated with colorful graffiti art, scrap metal sculptures, skate ramps, and residents from all walks of life. For some maybe that’s all it is, for others its an insight into a unique sub-culture of this amazing city.

Christiania Copenhagen Homes
A Little Christiania Home

If your family leans on the conservative side we’d recommend staying to the outskirts of the community where you will still see cultural ornaments scattered around the grounds. If you go to the heart of the area, you’ll find the “Green Light District” which is an acceptable place for marijuana propaganda and usage – which may very well spark your teenagers imagination if they aren’t already familiar with it from the legalization in America. Keep in mind cameras are not allowed in this area so if you do venture in you’ll need to file those away. Given this we’ll let you decide if it fits within your family philosophy but hope it gives you a little insight to help you make your decision.

Craving more about Denmark?

Read all about the royals and a few memorable churches in our post Copenhagen: From Steeples to Regals

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Amalienborg Palace Denmark Denmark

Copenhagen: From Steeples to Regals

We love experiencing everything that gives a city its unique character from churches to government institutes. Whether you are religious or not, walking into a local place of worship gives you an immersive perspective into its culture. Government buildings, specially those with living monarchies provide a sense of citizenship and purpose to its people. Here are a few top sites for these special places that every family can enjoy.

Charming Churches and Urban Legends

Travel Tip >> As with most tourist cities, some religious buildings have extra fees for tours and accessing top views so bring a few extra bucks if you want all access passes. 

English Church Copenhagen
The English Church

Walk through Langelinie Park and Kastellet moat near the edge of the city streets you’ll find English Church, aka St. Alban’s church, with its high steeple towering over overhead. The prominent religion in the country is Christianity, but similarly to the Church of England, the country has its own Church of Denmark. In comparison they are both of the Episcopal polity however the Church of Denmark is categorized as Lutheran in orientation. St. Alban’s Church is completely dedicated to England’s Anglican foundation and was built in the late 1800’s for the growing English population in Copenhagen.

The sanctuary was designed by British architect Arthur Blomfield in the Gothic Revival style with its dark grey flint stone walls highlighting the white piping and window framing around the exterior. Once inside you can actually feel the silence and reference that was invested to create the soul of the structure, magnified by the contrasting sound your footsteps make when walking down the center isle on the wood floor. The extensive detailing of the carved altar seemed to brighten with the traditional stained glass windows streaming light in from behind. It was a sight grandma would be proud of as we have a bonified Priest in the Episcopal faith in our family. It’s perfect mix of beauty and spirituality might even settle the kids.

Church of Our Saviour Copenhagen
The Haunted Spire of The Church of Our Saviour 

If that doesn’t work try driving their attention to the Gefion Fountain just in front of the quaint little church. Like many fountains around the world, many use this one as a wishing well and we can imagine the high expectations for results for those who try as it is the largest monument in the city. It was designed by Danish artist Anders Bundgaard near the turn of the 20th century and depicts the mythical story of the creation of the island Zealand on which the city was founded. There are three tiers with water flowing down to the bottom in short falls and the fountain sends arches of water along the edges that when standing at the bottom, seem to go as high as the steeple of the church.

On the opposing shore of the Kobenhavns Havn waterway in the Christianshavn district we found the Church of Our Saviour, clearly recognizable by its twisting gold trimmed helix spire pointing toward the heavens. We marveled at how the design demanded attention of anyone in its radius. Visitors can walk all the way up and take in amazing views of the city. Despite its beauty and stature, ironically the church has its own urban legend that haunts ghost-seekers that states that the architect committed suicide by jumping off the top of the tower when he realized that the spiral staircase turns the wrong way. Listen closely to hear the church sounding melodies every hour from 8 pm until midnight, not a bad soundtrack to evenings in the city.

There are plenty other churches to check out if you are drawn to the beauty of religious sites like us. A few others include Grundvigs Church, Frederick’s Church, Copenhagen Cathedral, Saint Anne’s Church and the International Church of Copenhagen.

Amalienborg Palace

Travel Tip >> Consider the Danish Royal Guards in the same regard as the iconic English Royal Guards. They are not allowed to talk to anyone like their fellow funny hatted friends, though if you’re lucky you may get a minor smirk. 

Danish Royal Guard
Royal Life Guard

Like most modern cities it was easy enough to navigate to the next main attraction by foot – the Amalienborg Palace. It’s easy to recognize once you enter the massively wide open cobblestone square, with a large oxidized bronze statue of King Frederick V reaching to the sky in the middle of the space, and identical buildings all facing one another. Set perfectly on the waterfront, it is home to the Danish royal family complete with around-the-clock Royal Life Guards that strongly resemble the Queen’s Guard and Foot Guards in England. You can feel its magnanimity by just being there, even your little princes and princesses might stop and pause to take it all in before role playing as if it was their castle.

We got a glimpse of the Guards marching in commute to the palace the next day, we followed them as far as the rain and time would allow before ducking into a shop to let the water pass. The changing of the Guards ceremony that occurs daily at noon and by all accounts it’s a great display if you want to plan your day around the event. The guards also appear to have similar rules as their fellow fuzzy-hatted counterparts with little-to-no facial expressions allowed at all times. Be respectful as you snap your shots but have fun doing it!

 

 

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Saint Louis Family Trip: City Must-Sees

The Heart of the City

Travel Tip >> The city goes to great lengths to keep visitors and residents safe. Travel light and be prepared for airport-like security as you go to the Gateway Arch’s visitors center and other locations including the Cardinals team store. 

Saint Louis Arch
The Gateway to the West

Our first full day was well spent exploring Saint Louis proper, that is home to the iconic Gateway Arch which just celebrated its 50th anniversary in 2015. If you rented a car, there is smart-metered street parking that you can pay for right from your smart phone via a special app, and it even gives you alerts when you are coming up on your time limit. Our first stop was in fact the famous arch which was pretty amazing to see close up. You will notice there is some graffiti in the form of scratched etchings along the base of the structure which is unfortunate. Please resist the urge to contribute to the defamation, we always find these types of vandalizing actions a bit sad.

Visitors can buy tickets to travel to the top of the 63 story structure to see a full view of the city and the Mississippi river that it so elegantly sits beside. Word on the street is that its a tight squeeze so if you’re afraid of heights or tight spaces this adventure may not be for you. Where did they get the steel to construct the 43,000 ton structure you ask? Well my beloved city of Pittsburgh of course! Remember my travel tip when you go collect your national park stamps at the visitor’s center as there is a full metal detector and bag scanning process to get in the doors.

You’ll also notice the Old Court House just across the large green space as you are walking toward the arch. This is actually part of the Gateway Arch National Park and provides a peak into American history as a part of the Underground Railroad and the site of the famed trial that gave women the right to vote. It’s architecture is highly regarded and it’s interior merits some attention. Of course tours are available throughout the day so your visit there can easily turn into an educational experience for the young ones.

Toasted Ravioli on The Hill

The Old Court House Saint Lous
The Old Court House

Once we got our fill of the Gateway Arch, we headed off to find some toasted ravioli since Saint Louis is the home of the famous food. The city prides itself on its Italian dishes and if you’re looking for some options in the area head to The Hill, a neighborhood well-known for their delicious carbs and sauces. We found ourselves at Rigazzi’s, apparently the oldest spot on the neighborhood complete with a mini gateway arch just outside its doors. The critics at our table agree that the food doesn’t match its rating as the best Italian restaurant in St. Louis but it does advertise one statement accurately in proclaiming its the “Home of the Frozen Fishbowl.” In other words if you’re thirsty for a giant schooner of beer, go here!

As you enter the restaurant, you’ll actually find an original St. Louis Blues Arena Seat that belonged to Bernie Federko who holds the franchise record for most seasons played and contributed 1,073 points to the team. If you’re aiming for the best toasted ravioli however, apparently it was created just down the road at Mama’s on the Hill where one fateful day a chef accidentally dropped a ravioli in a bucket of boiling water. We missed the mark on this clearly, but I look forward to confirming this bragging right on my next trip out there.

Home of the Cardinals

Fredbird Cardinals
Hanging out with Fredbird

Travel Tip >> Check to see if the Cardinal’s store across from Busch Stadium is selling a base from your team’s match up with the cards. They’re about $250+ depending on the game, but how rad would that be for a bar stool in your sports cave?!  

No visit to the city would be complete without a visit to Busch Stadium, home of the Saint Louis Cardinals. Although we couldn’t make a game in the final series of the season against the Pittsburgh Pirates (Go Bucs!), the stadium was easy to peer into and take in the spirit of the ballpark. Venture across the street and you’ll find the Cardinals Hall of Fame and Museum on the second floor. The wall honoring the top players is free to check out but you’ll need to buy up to see the exhibit. If you’re REALLY lucky, you may run into Fredbird, the cardinal’s mascot, who is apparently extremely rare to spot unless you’re part of a special or private event nearby. We were part of the lucky few, although we almost scared him off when we mentioned we were Pirates fans. It’s all in good sportsmanship.

The Saint Louis Zoo

Travel Tip >> The Saint Louis Zoo is free!! Just buy-up for any special attractions you want to experience like the train, carousel, or 4D shows but there is plenty to see without even reaching for your wallet. Oh and mom and dad, you can sip some adult beverages as you stroll around the park. 

Saint Louis Zoo
Saint Louis Zoo

Saint Louis Zoo is located in Forest Park, an area that reminds us a little of Balboa Park in San Diego, complete with a stellar Museum. The zoo was quite festive for the season which is always a plus and you can add to the fun with some beers or other adult beverages if you wish. There were penguins, zebras, giraffes, big cats, red pandas, and an orphaned polar bear named Kali. No matter which way you wonder in there is something exciting around every corner. Check it out and enjoy, then once you work up an appetite we highly recommend hopping on the highway and heading to Sugarfire Smoke House for some good old fashioned BBQ, complete with a home made pie place right next door. Mmmmmm!

The Bests Beyond the Arch

And at last a few honorable mentions. Rural King is our new favorite store! Everything is massively cheap including $10 flannels, hardware, camouflage everything including lingerie, toys, and even live baby chicks for a buck fifty each. Twin Peaks is basically like Tilted Kilt or a lumberjack version of Hooters, and its a great place to watch sports with TVs on every wall.

Let’s recap shall we? If you’re looking for the best bets in the state based on my Missouri travels here’s a quick-reference point from Saint. Louis to the Ozarks:

Fredricia Cruise Port Denmark

Fredericia Denmark Travel Guide and Tips

The story goes that this little town was established in 1650 by Danish King Frederick III as a new capital city for Denmark, but it never became so. Fredericia Denmark, a small but charming cruise port, is located on the eastern part of the Jutland peninsula and you will likely land here for a day trip after visiting the metropolitan city of Copenhagen. The town likely relies on tourist traffic to their little town and, like on our occasion, will likely greet you with festive folk music as you de-board the ship. It was a warm welcoming. We suspect that the pop up street vendors set up shop for the special occasion as well, and the prices and busy square will show for it, but its worth a stroll. Believe us you’ll have the time to spare.

A Charming Fortress

Travel Tip >> Skip the cruise’s shore excursion, unless you want to venture outside of the city, just take the map and enjoy walking around on your own. You’ll find everything you need to see and have enough time to do so.

Fredericia Vold
Fredericia Vold Moat

If you’re not prepared for what to expect in this port then you will likely be extremely underwhelmed. Keep in mind this sleepy town gives you more of a small village feel and breather from the big city ports that ships tend to land in and you don’t need to rush. A few friends attested to this after spending the money on those brightly colored stickers and celebrity paddle sign and proved it to be true. The town and its people have their own special charm that is worth checking out as long as you’re there for six to eight hours. Unless of course you want to venture outside the city to destinations like Egeskov Castle, Denmark’s Oldest Town of RibeViking Age Monuments, or Fairytale Island for a whimsical experience every kid at heart can enjoy.

Fredericia DK
City Scene

Before the city was named by King Frederick III, King Christian IV built a large fortified encampment that gave the town the military identity and history we know today. The old walls are easy to walk to and the green park space around them offers a relaxing and peaceful light walk. We loved walking along the waters of the moat surrounding the fortress, even on a cloudy day the scene was delightful and had its own unique charisma that mixed strength and romance. There are some stairs to climb to get back to the top of the fortress but it’s worth the view. You’ll find old military cannons scattered around the hills and the path will lead straight to the White Water Tower that is shaped like a single round castle. All the guides recommend climbing to the top, though I believe we didn’t because there was a small fee and the view was decent enough from the hilltop where we stood.

Halloween in May?

Travel Tip for Parents of Teenagers >> If you’re traveling with a saucy teenager and find yourself in the town during a high school finals week keep an eye on them because you might lose them to partying with the locals. Let us explain…

When we got to the White Water Tower it was difficult to not be distracted by the crowds of fumbling teenagers getting enjoying some spirits in the middle of the park while wearing what we would immediately think of as Halloween costumes. We saw everything ranging from a cow, fireman, wizards and witches, and everything in between. Our first guess was that maybe here they celebrate Halloween in May? But nope! After asking a large chicken walking upright down the street, we learned that apparently this tradition happens during a school’s finals week, and it doesn’t particularly matter if you still have a test to take or not, the festivities must go on! To their credit, it did look like a good time.

Other Historic Sites in Fredericia

Travel Tip >> Keep your eyes open and you’ll find little things along the way to appreciate, like the Jewish Cemetery that can be seen as you walk down the hill from the White Water Tower. Here are a few other gems my feet found their way to.

Landsoldaten The Foot Soldier
Landsoldaten “The Foot Soldier”

As you walk down the hill from the White Water Tower you’ll run straight into the famed Landsoldaten, or “The Foot Soldier,” statue of Fredericia. It stands homage to the military heritage of the town, and the Battle of Fredericia, which is commemorated with a full festival held annually on July 6th. I vaguely remember it being relatively similar in purpose to The Tomb of the Unknown Solider in Arlington National Cemetery for the United States. A few short steps from there, through the trees, you’ll find the Jewish Cemetery located on the street corner that you can look down into from the hillside. I didn’t realize what it was at the time, but even walking past it you can feel its history and importance. It’s the largest of its kind outside of Copenhagen and is located at the corner of Slesvigsgade and Jyllandsgade. And on my way back to the ship I could not help but be drawn to a beautifully tarnished bronze steeple atop a brick church which turns out to be the catholic church of St. Knud, so fitting for my faith. For most it may blend right into the rest of the brick-and-red-roofed architecture but its a pleasant surprise if you appreciate such things.

Fredericia At-a-Glance

Here is a list from of these and a few other travel sites to consider when walking around the city:

Jewish Cemetery Fredricia
Jewish Cemetery
  • Fredericia Vold – The park area, with moat waterway, and battle cannons scattered about
  • The White Water Tower – A nice view of the city from atop the fortress
  • Landsoldaten “The Foot Soldier” – Statue commemorating the Battle of Fredericia celebrated each year on July 6
  • The Jewish Cemetery – Jewish burial ground with about 500 graves on the corner of Slesvigsgade and Jyllandsgade
  • St. Knud Catholic Church – Beautifully simple brick building with tall tarnished bronze steeple
  • Madsby Parken – A park that your kids can play out or just lounge by the water
  • Trinatatis Church – A beautiful church that holds a piece of Danish history
Grand Teton National Park Montana

From Montana to the Dakotas: National Park Ranking and…

We love exploring our beautiful nation’s parks and firmly believe that you are never too old to become a junior ranger. For a summer road trip our family traveled over 4100 miles from Seattle to the Dakotas, then down and around home to California. If you are interested in a similar vacation check out our itinerary to help you start planning. This list ranks the best National Parks and Monuments from our route with a few tips along the way.

#1 – Grand Teton National Park

Travel Tip: Drive from north to south. Interestingly, if you visit Yellowstone National Park first, then drive south, you only have to pay for one park entrance. But if you drive up through Grand Teton first then you pay both park fees. 

Grand Teton National Park

Grand Teton National Park takes our #1 spot for its drop dead gorgeous alpine scenery. You’ll find that you can circumnavigate the park easily in a day but you’ll never actually want to leave. The park will cast a spell on you that will stay with you long after your stay. The expansive valleys with snow-capped peaks practically touching heaven is a sight that can only be compared to the majestic European Alps. Unfortunately, as in many other mountain ranges, the glaciers that are nestled into the nooks are shrinking but you can still catch a glimpse of them with the help of marked placards around the park. Jenny Lake is a must-see with its mirrored waters reflecting the park’s perfect rocky slopes.  For a family hike we recommend venturing on the Taggart Lake trail, a 3.7 mile loop that crosses cascading rapids, tall forestry and open valleys. Wildlife is around so keep your eyes peeled for deer and moose! It’s a moderately popular trail with a little traffic at times, but that’s just because everyone who makes it there appreciates its beauty as much as we do!

#2 – Yellowstone National Park

Travel Tip: Junior Rangers, this is one of the only parks We’ve been to that charges for the booklets. It’s not much at $3 or so, and the activities are more robust, but it’s something to keep in mind so you can bring your allowance or have mom and dad bring a few bucks. 

Yellowstone Adventures

We know what you’re thinking: Why is Yellowstone not #1 on the list? One word: Traffic! It’s popularity is so renowned that it’s honestly difficult for guests to reflect on it’s natural wonders before getting pushed to the next location. In 2017 alone 4,116,528 visited the park on their vacations. That being said, it’s still high on our list thanks to its unique character and scientific features. Make sure you check the times for Old Faithful and reserve your spot because crowding is definitely a thing there. Grand Prismatic Spring is another main draw, but keep in mind during certain times of year depending on the outside temp the steam may hinder your visibility. We went in June and although we could see the edges pretty clearly, this certainly was the case for us. Our favorite spring in the park is the Jewel of Biscuit Basin: Sapphire Pool, which is easily accessible offering a view from just a few feet away and whose colors seem to pop straight out of a pop-art painting. Wildlife is also abundant in Yellowstone with Bison roaming in packs and the occasional bear wandering around. Just look for the crowds and listen for the camera shutters to spot these them.

#3 – Badlands National Park

Travel Tip: Visit this breathtaking park in the evening or early morning if possible. There is certainly no bad view during the day, but the light from the rising or setting sun brings out more colors than you can imagine, giving the park a magical tone.

Badlands National Park

We’ve covered or leads for alpine and volcanic natural wonders but what about some red rock? Bryce Canyon is still our #1 for that category but for this trip we give Badlands National Park the award. TIP! Visit this at dawn or dusk as the vibrant colors are at their best in the low glows of the day. We ventured there just in the evening, just in time to reach the farthest junior ranger station where we were sworn in as official badge owners. The corrosive topography gives you the feeling as if you are standing in the middle of dino country. We were in awe to drive through and find a new formation around each curve that begged us to take its picture. It’s one of those places that is a photographer’s dream. Yellow Mounds stood out for us for it’s smooth rolling rocks juxtaposed against its surrounding sharp peaks. Pull out on the overlook and try to count the number of colors you see! And of course there is plenty of wildlife here, most prominently Big Horn Sheep wonder the grassy plains so keep an eye out but remember to be safe and give them space. You’re guests in their home after all.

#4 – Glacier National Park

Travel Tip: Be sure to check road conditions and closures on the Glacier National Park website. Depending on the time of year the Going-to-the-Sun Road may be closed due to icy conditions. The Junior Ranger booklet is a light one, and the Visitor’s Center will often modify it if full park access is limited. 

Glacier National Park

Our opa (grandpa in dutch) described this park as one of his favorites when he visited it not long ago on a father-son trip. It was the first big park on our trip and we were excited to see what all the fuss was about. It’s nice because the traffic is light, we even were able to pull off the side of the road and fly our drone for some areal shots without dodging too many cars. There are bugs though! Papa bear got eaten alive by skeeters in the few minutes he was taking video of the river and scenery. I think this park may have been bumped up a bit on the list if we had more visibility but keep in mind depending again on the season you visit fog might settle in and hide some of the tall peaks that make the landscape most recognizable. Before your visit check the road conditions in the park, particularly to see if Going-to-the-Sun Road is open, as this is the main scenic route for viewing. During our visit in June it was still closed due to winter conditions so we had to drive around the park to get to the eastern part of the park to the Two Medicine Area. Driving through it almost feels like you are in an entire different park but we loved it even more with the easy hikes and gushing waterfalls. We highly advise taking the kids to Running Eagle Falls, a super mild stroll with a big reward.

#5 – Theodore Roosevelt National Park

Travel Tip: Weather up here can be a bit unpredictable so be sure to pack an umbrella and rain coat in case of a sudden downpour. 

Theodore Roosevelt National Park

Theodore Roosevelt National Park is the primary attraction in North Dakota as most of the drive you’ll see flat land for MILES. We loved this park of course because it honors the man who championed for conserving our beautiful lands by creating the United States Forest Service (USFS) and establishing the foundation for the national park system. Today the park still extends the spirit of conservation by hosting a variety of educational programs in and around the park. There are a few ranger stations here the main one being at the start of the driving loop and the other that is on the outskirts of the park. The larger ranger station has a film you can watch and the usual resources, while the smaller station is really there to give you an expansive overlook of the badlands. We felt like storm chasers when we were there and mostly experienced the park from the safety of our car but it was still an awesome park to see. There are wild horses wondering the hills, prairie dog plains, more bison, elk and longhorn steers. Just kick back and play a little Garth Brooks, in our heads it was “The Thunder Rolls” and immerse yourself in the scenery.

#6 – Mount Rushmore National Memorial

Travel Tip: Your annual national park pass does not work here! We found this particularly irritating out of principle. They claim “admission” is free but parking is paid. They even customize the parking pass with your license plate number so you cant share the pass with any other visitors. 

Mount Rushmore

Extra travel tip for junior rangers: make sure you bring your own pen or pencil for the JR booklet. This is such a popular monument that they simply cannot supply enough for everyone. I mean it’s a must see right? A true American landmark! It’s a little further down on our list because we were certainly annoyed by the extra fee, especially since to be honest there is not a lot to do at this site like the larger locations. No matter how amazing your camera is, this is one of those massively photographed locations and actually looks the exact same in person than it does in pictures. There is a spot around the corner that has a pull-out area where you can see the profile perspective of the presidential faces but without going in you won’t have that iconic view. The biggest thing to note is that you may want to build a little more time into your itinerary on the way to Mount Rushmore because the surrounding area has sooo many tourist attractions from a Cosmos Mystery Spot to a Dinosaur Park you will likely get a bit distracted on the drive to the monument by trying to figure out which of the many options to choose from.

#7 – Jewel Cave National Monument

Travel Tip: This site is another rare case where your National Park Annual Pass does not work for all tour types depending on age so be prepared to fork up a little cash to experience the larger cave adventure. Parking and ranger guided nature trail is free though. 

Jewel Cave

If you have the time waiting for your tour join the resident volunteer or park ranger on the short nature walk. It has some great historical, scientific and educational information about the Black Hills region. As mentioned your annual pass won’t work here depending on your family members’ ages so be sure to check the Jewel Cave national park service website for updated rates as these vary by tour type as well. The longest tour is about an hour and 20 minutes and is a moderately strenuous commitment.  The shortest one which is your cheapest, most accessible (including wheelchairs) and quickest option with only family members 17 and up having to pay for admission and lasting just 20 minutes. As long as you plan ahead you’ll be able to catch a tour while still staying on schedule.

#8 – Pompey’s Pillar National Monument

Travel Tip: This was a spur of the moment addition to our trip since it was literally right off the freeway, but it may take a little time to walk to the actual site from the visitor’s center.

Pompey’s Pillar National Monument is mainly a drive by stamp opp for your passport, located right off the 94 highway. Its a perfect opportunity for you to incorporate a little learning into your trip because its significant stems from the fact that William Clarke of Lewis and Clarke left his mark as he passed through the area on July 25, 1806 as he explored the region. It’s worth a quick stop if you have the time.